[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.dalila.cz\/rutina-a-nuda\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.dalila.cz\/rutina-a-nuda\/","headline":"Rutina a nuda","name":"Rutina a nuda","description":"Posledn\u00ed dobou mi b\u011bh\u00e1 hlavou, jestli jsem tam, kde m\u00e1m b\u00fdt.\u00a0M\u00e1me s p\u0159\u00edtelem dceru. Vztah byl ze za\u010d\u00e1tku hezk\u00fd, ale to je tak v\u0161ude. Jsme…","datePublished":"2024-09-23","dateModified":"2024-09-23","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.dalila.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.dalila.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9514fe8d0d5bc6f8b5e285c47f6d71536ab35446ffb077fff11f6ca1fa8b00ce?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9514fe8d0d5bc6f8b5e285c47f6d71536ab35446ffb077fff11f6ca1fa8b00ce?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"dalila.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.dalila.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-560783_640.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.dalila.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-560783_640.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.dalila.cz\/rutina-a-nuda\/","about":["Lifestyle"],"wordCount":441,"articleBody":"Posledn\u00ed dobou mi b\u011bh\u00e1 hlavou, jestli jsem tam, kde m\u00e1m b\u00fdt.\u00a0M\u00e1me s p\u0159\u00edtelem dceru. Vztah byl ze za\u010d\u00e1tku hezk\u00fd, ale to je tak v\u0161ude. Jsme spolu teprve p\u00e1r let. Posledn\u00ed dobou mi p\u0159ijde, \u017ee za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 vych\u00e1zet na povrch jeho prav\u00e1 str\u00e1nka. U\u017e si moc nerozum\u00edme. J\u00e1 jsem \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00e1 ne\u017e on. M\u00e1m n\u011bjak\u00e9 vize, c\u00edle, sna\u017e\u00edm se na sob\u011b pracovat, i na vztahu s dcerou si d\u00e1v\u00e1m z\u00e1le\u017eet a u vztahu s n\u00edm v\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1me n\u011bjak\u00e9 probl\u00e9my a sna\u017e\u00edm se je komunikovat a \u0159e\u0161it. Bohu\u017eel on je jin\u00e9 kafe. Nic ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed, nic ho nezaj\u00edm\u00e1. Jeho \u017eivot bude nejsp\u00ed\u0161 cel\u00fd rutina a nikam se nikdy neposune. M\u00edv\u00e1me \u010dasto spory, s malou tr\u00e1v\u00edm \u010das p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b sama, proto\u017ee on bu\u010f pracuje nebo m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 kon\u00ed\u010dky a je to opravdu 80 % \u010dasu. Zbytek \u010dasu je doma a nejrad\u0161i by jen prole\u017eel u televize, m\u00e1lokdy ho n\u011bkam vyt\u00e1hnu nebo ho donut\u00edm d\u011blat n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho. Dceru m\u00e1 r\u00e1d a mysl\u00edm, \u017ee i m\u011b, ale nejde se s n\u00edm v\u016fbec bavit o probl\u00e9mech. Kdy\u017e mu \u0159eknu, \u017ee mi vad\u00ed, \u017ee je neust\u00e1le na telefonu nebo u televize, \u017ee by mi nevadilo, kdyby m\u011bl kon\u00ed\u010dky, ale \u010das, kter\u00fd je doma, v\u011bnoval opravdu n\u00e1m (mysl\u00edm kvalitn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd, ne \u017ee vedle n\u00e1s sed\u00ed a hled\u00ed do mobilu), tak mi dost \u010dasto \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: ,,Ty m\u011b chce\u0161 po\u0159\u00e1d jen m\u011bnit, ale j\u00e1 jsem takov\u00fd, tak si na to zvykni.“ Bez ohledu na to, \u017ee mi jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed ubli\u017euje a dcera se mu odd\u00e1lila. Ke mn\u011b jako k \u017een\u011b taky nic moc. Kdy\u017e jsem mu to \u0159ekla, \u0159ekl mi: ,,Chov\u00e1m se k tob\u011b jak si zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161.“ Sna\u017e\u00edm se mu vysv\u011btlit u\u017e xx m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f, \u017ee pot\u0159ebuju trochu pozornosti a l\u00e1sky, ale asi si ji podle n\u011bho nezaslou\u017e\u00edm. Kdy\u017e m\u00e1m n\u011bjak\u00fd probl\u00e9m, do kter\u00e9ho by m\u011bl zas\u00e1hnout taky, tak mi pov\u00ed, \u017ee to \u0159e\u0161it nebude a a\u0165 si to vy\u0159e\u0161\u00edm sama.\u00a0Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b se boj\u00edm, \u017ee s n\u00edm nebudu do budoucna \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1. U\u017e te\u010f to nen\u00ed ide\u00e1ln\u00ed a je to posledn\u00ed dobou sp\u00ed\u0161e jenom p\u0159e\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed a nen\u00ed to takov\u00e9 to, \u017ee jsme navz\u00e1jem propojen\u00ed a tr\u00e1v\u00edme \u010das spolu.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (13 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Rutina a nuda","item":"https:\/\/www.dalila.cz\/rutina-a-nuda\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]